13 June The importance of the resilience in the enterprising ones
What difficult is to undertake! All one ventures flood of ignorance, doubts, uncertainty and impatience that a sea of sensations and very different feelings wakes up in same you, with many obstacles to which to face up these prepared for it? On putting you to those difficult situations they are going to be the key of your success as enterprising. For that reason I have invited today Gema Ja©n de Belleza and Percaleo to write in my blog, to help you to see how the resilience will do that nonceases in the advances of your way as enterprising The post Begins!
RESILIENCE IN THE ENTERPRISING WOMEN
There are people to whom really I admire. They are my heroins because I really do not know from where they remove the forces. They are endangered species: the enterprising women.
If or he is complicated to have a work on another's account, an own business imagines having for a moment or to try to create it and to remove advanced it In the times that run is almost one impossible mission and an example to follow. When a woman creates her own business and she goes to him well, it is necessary to follow its example because if she can obtain it, the rest also we can.
But from where they remove to the force these great enterprising women? always they are in positive way? How they are organized?
The enterprising women are human and strong but they also have moments of weakness and of overload and the resilience enters there: to use all those negative situations, of crisis or weakness etc, and to have the flexibility to adapt them in those situations limits. We only left fortified a little while critical if we admitted that there is a problem, and that we must fix contributing it a solution. For this reason, the resilience is the set of forces or methods (or external forces or in-core instruments) that the people enable to bear the difficult circumstances that successfully they consider to them in the life; so that in addition to fixing the problems without negative sequels, they leave fortified those situations and what was difficult and complicated has become an element for personal growth.
ENTERPRISING WOMAN OR ALL-TERRAIN WOMAN?
The life of an enterprising woman is not easy. I am not going to speak of that it is not known and it is known already. The women we have the ugly custom to have to demonstrate all the short while who we are the best ones. Sometimes, they are ingrained beliefs that we have adopted as a universal Creed.
On the other hand, the enterprising women we tried to be perfectionist and we exceed sometimes in our activities than it is absolutely necessary and when we did not arrive at our objectives, we felt shame and it blames. We can live thus with this continuous anxiety or put solutions?
It is certain that we are strong, but we do not have to hold everything at all costs, because we have a limit. We would have to begin to understand that the strength is obtained demonstrating the weakness to by not being able to realise a project to have a limit. And if we began to value that project supposes a effort to us with labor and personal excessive cost?
In this post, I want to speak of how we can put some to us you rule of behavior that helps us to leave fortified or to follow si©ndolo without dying in the attempt
The resilience as competition of the strong and enterprising people can be worked and be harnessed Already speaks of it in my blog in the post Who shelp Crisis? It discovers the power of the Resilience.
Now I propose to you some you rule to continue being strong:
It begins to construct the house by the pillars. In this case the pillar you are and you will pound, those difficulties that consider. In a complicated situation, usually we lose the hope and the faith in we ourself. It is moment to work the personal self-esteem. If you obtain that it is well, your security will grow and your self-confidence consequently. You will have a positive attitude that will allow you to look beyond an objective form and to begin to make decisions from a more objective form
For it you can lean in your positive memories, learns to receive the affection of the others, etc.
The enterprising women we bore much emotional burden mainly and to put a protective shield all the short while can not always work of positive form in some circumstances but. It is necessary to be humble, to look in our interior and to raise what is what I have done badly and what I can make fix it. You need to understand that never you are going to be able to make it all good, no matter how much you strive; and that you are not one superwoman, but a human person.
The acceptance needs its time, for it I suggest to you
- You do a list of activities and come off to you at least some of them and accept the consequences.
- Reconcile to you with aspects of your life that you have raised with a lever. It closes doors and cleans to you of histories of the past that do not let to you advance.
- It investigates what waits for the people of you and decides if you want to pay the price to please them and if it is worth the trouble to you.
- For, it reflects, I know humble and admits your errors and failures
RESILIENCE AND THE EXPOSITION OF INNOVATING SOLUTIONS
How? From the failure it is possible to be removed new expositions, for it lets to you inspire by the others, you you cannot do it all single one. You are not single in the life. The USA the weapon of the patience, the solutions, do not come overnight, and verifies that there are not simpler methods to achieve the objective.
RESPONSIBILITY OF ONE SAME ONE
The strong and enterprising women we are so customary to feel us responsible for any project that we forgot to be responsible for we ourself. If we did not delegate is by our fault, simply. We cannot do it everything and you can control to where your capacity arrives, ponte a limit but that is objective.
For this reason, my advice is that you distinguish between the realistic needs, the own pretensions and the other people's expectations. He decides by same you until where you want and you can respond. Pardon to you because you have tried it if he leaves bad and he sleeps with brings back to consciousness calm
HE FOLLOWS A BALANCE
He has cost to you to arrive much up to here, thus is that now you cannot throw it everything by the hut. Mant©n the balance. It compensates stress with the rest, you do not demand more than you can give, improvement those things that you have slopes and thanks for all those people who have supported to you or a hand in difficult times has thrown you
IT CREATES RELATIONS AND PREPARES YOU FOR YOUR NEW FUTURE
I advise to you that you free yourself of loads and negative energy that contribute the others to you. It is not necessary that you cut to relations but mant©n the distances. You cannot allow helping you to other when you need that help and are people who not even realize it. Be used to directing your attention to you to the people that can fortify to you and creates a list that opens new alternatives to you of conduct in doubtful situations
You prepare you for future: you do not exhaust the forces in your present or you will harm it Learns to delegate and to that the others worry and they take responsibility of its future. You enough have already, as for above overloading to you. It remembers, it begins with small proyectitos and little by little you will go to more but without saturating themselves nor losing the forces.
And it remembers that secret of the resilience it is the balance between the internal and external forces with two protection factors: the autopercepci³n and the autorrespeto by same you.
I hope that this post serves you to work your potential in the field of the resilience.
Gema Ja©n (Ja©n, 1980) Is licensed in Right and certified in PNL the Association the International, at the moment works in RRHH and as hobbies emphasize the fashion and to harness the talent of the people.
Their creativity and experience in these two areas, took to open their own webpage to him in April of 2016, directing contained and proposing a present time vision.
Gem is characterized because never it has liked the straight way or that it follows everybody, has always preferred to take alternative routes, the secondary roads, the passages in which one can be lost and be; discovering during the trip new passions.
The passion by the beauty already existed in its world and the percaleo was a coined term to name to all the others. The beauty is not understood without the percaleo, nor the percaleo without the beauty with all variations. They are two concepts that comprise of a whole universal jaenistico