06 June To love itself one same one, the key of a success undertaking
Often we thought that the surroundings limit to us, when takings a decision or when you decide to undertake. But nobody limits to you more than you yourself, you yourself you are the one that you put the majors barriers and the one that you sabotage yourself more same in your day to day without occurring to account with unfounded beliefs obstacles in many occasions. I myself I have undergone blockades and limitations that I have prevailed I myself without realizing, without giving account to me of everything what was really able. For that reason I have invited today to the Coach MªLuz de Enthumano to write in my blog, to help you to autoimpulsar to you, to go further on, to remove and to see the best version of you, and as it, it helps you and it drives you to the success when you decide to undertake The post Begins!
To love itself as election not as emotion. In this way, a coach can accompany to you
- Good morning, we are in direct for World in love you could tell me in this beautiful morning of Friday who is the love of your life?
Upppps, that the TV does not give loose time to think and then something a little rare that still you have not awaked absolutely.
- Then thus suddenly it would say that the love of my life I am.
In order to listen finally of the journalist:
- Thank you very much. Peculiar opinion then nothing that you follow happy that with same you.
It seems a banal dialogue and unexpected and certainly more than one it can think that the pedestrian is narcissistic, egotistic or provoking.
The certain thing is that although to show something thus it can seem unpopular I confess to you that at this moment I am the love of my life. Thus I feel it.
I have crossed a long way to arrive up to here because the loves - also the own one is necessary to work them and my present decision is to want same every day more to me. Thus they are the things.
If you want to discover why it has served to want to me to me and more better for a success undertaking, it continues reading my 6 profits.
To want to me has allowed me
1 Elegir freely what it does to me happier between the multiple alternatives reaches. I have let myself flow giving vent intuition, opening to me to new realities that were quite remote of some of my stereotyped previous beliefs.
2 better Atender my vital needs working habits that have repelled positively in which it has a good physical and mental health. As for this reason, every time healthier, I make exercise with regularity, I control my working hours, I see more comedies, stroll by the field, travel, me along with positive people, I laugh to me more, I read things that nourish my mind, I use part of my time in diddling, becoming bored and to rest
3 more tolerant, patient, to be educated, amiable and respectful with same me. I am spoken every better day: with positive and warm words. Symbolically, I smile, me wink an eye, I occur to a light tap in the back or invention a joke for me. That yes, I try to do it with dissimulation, that I either do not try to give the note. Also I excuse plus my failures to is not for as much and I am clear my profits without attributing them to others.
4 To demand what I want to give to me, neither the more nor the less, looking for opportunities of success in connection with my essence and so I need in the affective scope, intellectual, labor and spiritual because all these aspects are important for me.
5 To accept to me as I am, as being different, and thus showing to me. This way it is to me easier to connect with same me and the others. I tune more with the people, I want to them better and I establish more lasting, sincere and positive relations without trying to always respond to its expectations on me.
6 Confiar me and to undertake with center and persistence. That allows me to look around, to experiment, to try, to change, to make responsible to me and to advance to feel me live and to be able to act towards my goals freer on the fear to the error.
To love to me has tried me well-being. And it is that when you choose by same you, when you take care of your vital needs, when you are amiable with you and you connect with your essence, when you accept and samples as you are, when you trust you and you are focused is more difficult than the things do not come out well.
You do not ask to me why, but in my experience thus it is. Perhaps something fails, that something leaves bad, that DES a roundup, that afternoons but in the end is results of high value for you.
And that happens because to love to you same you become as a water obstacle that is sprinkling it everything around, an alive and contagious water. The water of your life.
So that all this happens, it has to wish it much, to be applied and to risk, is in the sentimental, labor plane, or in any other leaving back many saveable barriers, some that exist and other that we put each.
By all means that I have left route of improvement in the same love but I go there in the good direction, in the direction that marks my essence and that it has to do with the track which I want to leave in the world.
Byung-Chul Has remembers that we are obstinate with aspiring perfectly labor, emotional and corporal, sacrificing any negatividad that it prevents at the most to arrive high a certain degree from success.
In its book the society of the alert fatigue on the person repressed centered only in its work, car-operating with the only interest to prevail itself professionally, autoesclavizada by its desire of individual overcoming and autorrealizaci³n.
Many we have lived obstinate a time to reach that unattainable perfection until we discovered the formula of the balance between the professional and personal life. And the formula is not other than the one to be wanted better.
Perhaps nobody before has asked to you if you want to advance in the love by same you. You intention to it because it is not going to you to defraud, at the outset is certain that everything displaces a little - or and a that disorder is much uncomfortable but soon everything begins to fit as if the pieces were done to size.
Then, which is the way to follow in 8 steps to be wanting and to obtain a success undertaking to you?
- It recognizes that it is important to demonstrate love to you.
- It takes care of your essence, to which you have at this moment of value in same you.
- The vision refocuses of yourself. Your ideal I lean in whom you are and not in the image that you project. I look for your better and decide how to look, to think and to feel.
- He takes care of with who you join to you. They will be worthy people of you, amiable, respectful, shared in common. They will help you to see you as you are.
- I speak to your wounded with affection, patience, clarity and positive reinforcement.
- He learns of yourself: of how you are, of what you are able to do, of your desires and I interest, of your motivations, of what it does to you happy.
- It accepts what you cannot change of your personality, your life, your experience or past elections. If you do not want, it is not going to you to prevent to be happy.
- It designs a plan to love to you same and follows it.
To embrace your value and singularity is the motivation that you must to grow. And it is that, as already you know, in the life it does not do happy an outer standard to you of other people's success. One is to be turning to us, little by little, in those who we are. It dives until finding what it does to you only. When submerging you discover that the love to you same extraction the best thing of you. In this way, a coach can accompany to you through a structured process that will not leave you indifferent and where you decide how you are wanted to want.
Mara Luz Cid Bragado
Hello, I am Mara Luz Cid specialized in coaching executive and life for the personal and of life professional balance.
I help to that the brave people who wish to leave track in both lives obtain it successfully.